Ambiguous Loss and the Myth of Closure
Ambiguous loss is loss without closure, and thus its grief also has no closure. When loved ones cannot be found or healed from an illness, when families are uprooted and separated by forced migrations, or when loss makes no sense (suicide, homicide), the lens of ambiguous loss helps therapists as they work with families when there is no clear solution. While lingering grief from ambiguous loss is akin to that of complicated grief, it is a normal reaction to an abnormal type of loss. Traditional grief and PTSD therapies are thus insufficient. Using case analysis and self-of-the-therapist reflection, Pauline Boss, PhD, will discuss relational and contextual assessments and interventions, as well as cultural differences regarding the need for closure. Boss’ six therapeutic guidelines to increase the resiliency to tolerate and even embrace ambiguity, focus on meaning; mastery, identity, ambivalence, attachment and hope.
In this workshop participants will learn:
- What ambiguous loss is (and is not), why it matters, and what to do about it clinically and relationally?
- The differences between on-going grief from ambiguous loss and grief disorder, PTSD, depression, etc.
- How therapists and professionals can maintain their own resilience in the face of losses that have no closure
Pauline Boss, PhD, is a family therapist; Professor Emeritus, University of Minnesota; a Fellow in the American Psychological Association and American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy; and Moses Distinguished Visiting Professor, 2004-2005, at the Hunter School of Social Work. She is author of Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief (Harvard University Press, 1999), Loss, Trauma, and Resilience (Norton, 2006) and most recently, Loving Someone Who Has Dementia (Jossey-Bass/John Wiley, 2011). She continues to train clinicians across the United States. and around the world.
Date: Friday, April 6, 2018
Time: 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.
CE Contact Hours: 5
If you are an Ackerman alumni of the Externship or current Ackerman student, please contact the Training Department to register.
212 879-4900, ext 111